If society were a coin, its two sides would be men and women. To ensure the smooth functioning of society, the presence of both is essential. Just as International Women’s Day is observed to honor women’s rights and contributions, International Men’s Day is celebrated to recognize the role of men in family and society. Every year, November 19 is marked as International Men’s Day to acknowledge and appreciate men’s contributions.
Challenging Stereotypes: Men Feel Pain Too
A common Hindi saying goes, “Mard ko dard nahi hota” — meaning “men do not feel pain.” In reality, this phrase reflects the societal expectation for men to endure hardships silently. Men, like women, experience stress, suffering, and emotional pain. Yet, they often bear these struggles for the welfare of their family and society. Many male role models have inspired the world through their resilience, care, and dedication. Men play a significant role in nurturing, protecting, and supporting women and children, and International Men’s Day aims to honor these contributions.
The Significance of International Men’s Day
International Men’s Day reminds us that while men may be different, they deserve recognition and respect for their efforts. This day provides an opportunity to reduce societal pressures on men and promote their well-being. It emphasizes positive masculinity, encouraging men to be strong, compassionate, and socially responsible. The celebration also supports gender equality by highlighting men’s active role alongside women in building a balanced society.
As noted, “True masculinity is not just physical strength or income; it is compassion, empathy, and humanity.” Recognizing men’s emotional and social contributions is central to creating a healthy, harmonious community.
The History of International Men’s Day
International Men’s Day was first observed in 1999 by Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh, a history professor at the University of the West Indies. He highlighted issues affecting men and boys and promoted their welfare. In India, the day was celebrated for the first time on November 19, 2007, and has since gained recognition as a day to honor men’s contributions to family, society, and humanity.
Conclusion
International Men’s Day is a reminder to appreciate the role men play in society. From protecting and nurturing families to setting inspiring examples, men’s contributions are invaluable. This day encourages everyone to respect, support, and celebrate men, promoting positive masculinity and gender equality.