Dharmendra’s First Love: The Pakistani Girl Hamida He Never Forgot
A childhood love lost to Partition returns to memory as Dharmendra takes his final journey
A Flame That Lit Old Memories
Even as the flames consumed the mortal remains of Dharmendra at the Vile Parle crematorium today, an emotional and long-buried chapter from the actor’s childhood resurfaced — one that crossed borders, years and destinies. Before he won millions of hearts on screen, Bollywood’s Garam Dharam had surrendered his own heart for the first time to a gentle girl named Hamida from Pakistan.
The Innocent Love of a Pre-Partition Childhood
In the summer of 1946, when Punjab was still undivided, 11-year-old Dharam Singh Deol met Hamida in Dangon village near Sahnewal. Their families were close; the children often played together and shared carefree afternoons.
“Innocent glances turned into promises,” Dharmendra had once revealed to a senior journalist. “We would sit under the peepal tree and talk for hours… she was my first crush, my little secret.”
Partition — A Border That Separated Two Hearts
History intervened before life could unfold. The Partition of 1947 forced Hamida’s family to migrate to Lahore, while the Deols remained in India. For a few years, letters crossed the newly drawn border — hopeful, loving and handwritten.
Then, without warning, the silence came.
Dharmendra never met Hamida again.
A Memory He Carried for Life
In a rare interview decades later, after achieving superstardom, Dharmendra quietly confessed:
“Hamida taught me what pure love feels like — without cameras, without fame.”
Today, villagers from Dangon recall how the young Dharam would often stare at the western horizon — toward the land Hamida had gone to — wondering if she too remembered.
Unscripted Romance That Outshone the Screen
Dharmendra’s life was filled with legendary on-screen romances and an iconic marriage to Hema Malini. But the love story that remained untouched by the world — unrecorded, unphotographed and unfulfilled — may be the one that touched him the deepest.
A tender love severed by history, yet preserved in the heart of the He-Man till his final breath.
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